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We had yet to learn that love can be bigger than two.The realization that each leg of the relationship must be strong or the whole thing falls apart was a major discovery for us, and one that helped us shift into a truly solid loving relationship as a three.She had been my best friend for years, and we’ve always been closer than sisters. And then there was a LOT of open and honest communication, of course.People used to always comment on how close we were, but we never realized that could be sexual, too. We got along incredibly, the three of us, and at some point, my best friend realized she had feelings for me. ” A lot of talking, a lot of thinking, all of us talking together as well as doing a lot of thinking on our own, individually. There has to be with any successful couple, and so with three people, even more so.Insecurities still arise from time to time, just as they do in any relationship, but it’s on a much different level now—just normal occasional stuff. To what if any degree do you guys feel compelled to hide your relationship from the rest of the world?
I was supporting four children with very little support, but managing. We all felt very excited when we realized that we were in love and that we all wanted the same thing (a long-term committed relationship as three).There were numerous points where we would look at each other and say, “It’s so weird, but if I was still a fundamentalist Christian, I would say that God is blessing us…”We took very small and careful steps forward, hesitantly, every inch of the way being shocked at how nice, how perfect, how healthy, how “just right” it always felt. Fun, in that it was a new relationship, so it was exciting, but totally exhausting.Our fears about each next step were always replaced by fearfully taking it and then finding it delightful. The minute we bought our big house together, we all breathed a collective sigh of relief. That takes time, but we parent in very similar ways, and the children and teens already were very close, so it all meshed together well, too. ” If she saw us being affectionate, she might say, “Oh, no!We decided we didn’t want to risk our children being persecuted for our choices.Also, employment-wise, we are all professionals in our careers and while we do great work, we know that many employers are openly right-wing and openly homophobic (and so we can only guess what they would feel towards us, if they knew).