Dating codependent people
Responsibility for relationships with others needs to coexist with responsibility to self.
Codependent relationships are marked by intimacy problems, dependency, control (including caretaking) denial, dysfunctional communication and boundaries, and high reactivity.
There are various recovery paths for individuals who struggle with codependency.
The codependency movement may have its roots in the theories of German psychoanalyst Karen Horney.
Often, there is imbalance, so one person is abusive or in control or supports or enables another person's addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement.
Some codependents often find themselves in relationships where their primary role is that of rescuer, supporter, and confidante.
In its broadest definition, a codependent is someone who cannot function from their innate self and whose thinking and behavior is instead organized around another person, or even a process, or substance.
In this context, people who are addicted to a substance, like drugs, or a process, like gambling or sex, can also be considered codependent.